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Dear Abby Weighs In: When Asking In-Laws to Book a Hotel Keeps the Peace

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Amid family gatherings and the familiar dilemma of where visiting relatives should stay, one spouse’s preference for in-laws booking a hotel room instead of staying at their home has sparked a conversation about hospitality and personal boundaries. This preference emerges from a desire to maintain peace and privacy within the household. For many, having in-laws stay over can disrupt daily routines and stretch the limits of personal space. Opting for hotel accommodations can help preserve relationships by giving both parties the necessary breathing room. The idea of asking relatives to stay in a hotel is … Read more

Slate’s ‘Dear Prudence’ Explores Naming Battles, Trust in Relationships, and Personal Appearance Dilemmas

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NEW YORK — Slate’s advice column, “Dear Prudence,” is seeing a temporary change in leadership as editor-in-chief Hillary Frey steps in to helm the column. The column, which encourages reader submissions and guarantees anonymity, has become a staple for those seeking guidance on personal qualms and dilemmas. In a recent installment, a reader expressed frustration over her in-laws’ persistent mispronunciation of her daughter’s name, Helene. Despite being corrected multiple times, her in-laws continue to pronounce it “Hel-LYN” instead of “He-LEEN.” The reader shared that this issue has become a point of contention, leading her to … Read more